Volume III, Issue 4 • Winter 2017
This issue of Bridges highlights Guardianship and Supported Decision-Making
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Personal Perspectives — Interview with Marilyn Stata, Self-Advocate
What do you for fun?
What I do for fun is hanging out with friends at movies or mall.
Do you work? If yes, tell us about your work.
I currently work for Sam’s Club in Henrietta as a Door Greeter checking receipts, welcoming members, helping them figure out which aisle has certain items they’re looking for.
Do you volunteer? Where do you volunteer? What do you enjoy about it?
I volunteer for SANYS, Self-Advocacy of NYS.
What is an important decision you have made in your life? How do you feel about this decision?
I am starting to get self-direction services and I feel really proud of myself.
Guardianship and Supported Decision-Making
How do we make decisions? Who do we turn to? Most of us consult with family, friends, or trusted professionals to decide. This process of consulting with others describes supported decision-making. From where to go for lunch to important financial and health care options, decision-making touches every aspect of our lives. Is decision-making different for adults who have disabilities? It may be a guardian who makes the decisions; or it may be the person working with a trusted group of supporters who make decisions together. In this issue of Bridges, we explore two different decision-making options. Which one is right for your family? Only the adult who has a disability together with their circle of support can decide.
From the Editor
This issue certainly challenges our ideas around guardianship and who makes decisions for our kids. Many of us pursued guardianship with all good
intentions, to protect our children for example, in a critical health emergency. If my child was ill and couldn’t speak for himself, would I want the medical staff making decisions for him or do we, his loving parents and guardians, make decisions? Among other scenarios, that’s the way guardianship was presented to me a few years ago. My husband and I considered it a partnership much more than a dictatorship. We give Nick choices all the time and honor his decisions in every aspect of his life. Is being a guardian, even a very person-centered guardian, serving our son’s best interests?
I have to admit my stomach turned when I considered that guardianship legally strips people of their civil rights and gives the power to make all decisions to the guardian. No one should have that much influence on another human being. So what do guardians do now who are considering changing this critical relationship? We can petition the court to reverse guardianship and the decision to do so would be decided by the court. It certainly is something to think about and
possibly pursue in 2018.
Wishing all of our readers happy holidays and a happy, peaceful 2018!
– Maria Schartel
Starbridge Workshops, Conferences & Special Events
Click on the event links below for more information
January 11, 2018 | 6-7pm via Webinar |
January 16, 2018 | 6-7:30pm | Randolph Free Library in Randolph, NY |
Creating a Path to Positive Behaviors January 16, 2018 | 6-8pm via Webinar |
Functional Behavior Assessments and Behavior Intervention Plans January 25, 2018 | 12-1:30pm at Starbridge OR 6-7pm via Webinar |
Discipline and Suspension: Understanding the Rights of Students with Disabilities January 25, 2018 | 12-2pm | Exceptional Family Resources in Syracuse, NY |
Preparing for a Meeting at Your Child's School March 13, 2018 | 6-8pm | Dibble Family & Event Center in Batavia, NY |